Divorce & Your Money: Financial Assets

divorce and your money, divorce and financial assets This is the fourth post in my “Divorce & Your Money” series.

A divorcing couple must identify and evaluate their financial assets and liabilities.  Division and responsibility for each will be part of their divorce settlement.




Make a List

Start by making a list of your assets.  The list should include:

  • Cash
  • Checking accounts
  • Savings accounts
  • Children’s bank accounts
  • Retirement accounts
  • Investment or Brokerage accounts
  • Real estate
  • Contents of safety deposit box
  • Incentive programs – examples could be stock options, business perks, frequent flyer programs or points.

Determine the Value

Once a list is made, acquire a recent statement or estimate of value for each.  Couples may also agree on a specific date for determining value: either the date of separation, or end of calendar year or quarter.

Valuation of a bank account is a simple matter, but the couple may have a difference of opinion regarding real estate or the value of a business.  The best thing to do is hire a third-party appraiser in either case.

Career assets, such as the value of a professional degree acquired during the marriage, could be assigned a value some cases.  Speak with your attorney.

Confirm the List is Complete

A common concern is that if one spouse handles all the finances, the other could be missing something.  One spouse may suspect the other is hiding assets, being unhelpful, or just disorganized.  Where should they start?

The best place to start may be your tax returns.  Look at the last five years to be really thorough.

Tax returns provide a wealth of information, including:

  • Income from all sources
  • Property taxes
  • Interest & dividends
  • Profit or loss from a business
  • Capital gains & losses
  • Partnership income

Another useful resource may be the mortgage closing paperwork.  Recent mortgage closing would require disclosure of assets, liabilities, sources of income and tax returns.

Developing a list of assets and their value may be a simple or extremely difficult task, depending on the complexity involved, and the couple’s financial management process.  However, it must be completed to proceed.


Please note, changes in tax laws may occur at any time and could have substantial impact upon each person’s situation.  You should discuss tax or legal matters with the appropriate professional.

The information contained in this report does not purport to be a complete description of the securities, markets or developments referred to in this material.  Any information is not a complete summary or statement of all available data necessary for making an investment decision and does not constitute a recommendation.  Any opinions are those of Sara Stanich and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.

About Sara Stanich

Sara Stanich, CFP®, CDFA™, works with people who are building their lives – growing a business, raising a family, moving toward personal achievements – to help them build solid financial plans for the future. Have a financial question? CLICK HERE TO ASK SARA!

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